​“It has been said that time heals all wounds. The truth is that time does not heal anything. It merely passes. It is what we do during the passing of time that helps or hinders the healing process...” – Jay Marshall
"Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars..." – Khalil Gibran
This place is not our true home,

it is a place for spiritual growth, that is how it is constructed, its purpose. Wounds and trauma reduce our ability for love and personal development, and our ability to engage in building healthy communities and relationships. Those are paramount to help you belong to that other place above our own. God's realm is one big community working together for a greater cause, everyone must believe in God, and his ways. Much like employees here must believe in the capacity and leadership of the CEO of the companies they are working for. But here, things are complicated, people can hide their intents, people can steal, cheat, deceive, and the CEO's can do the same. Not with God, not possible.

Hell is here, evil is here, and you need to heal what is not good inside of you, and shore up your defenses, your boundaries, to make certain that your being becomes a mini-heaven in a way, a place where evil is not welcomed. Some of your most valuable assets that evil tries to destroy, are love, joy, togetherness, peace, common sense, compassion, overall health... And instead, leave behind jealousy and greed, anger, racism, apathy, depression, gluttony, sexual dysfunctions, fears.

Many believers are left to feel very alone in this world, even those who go to churches, this world is harsh for those who do not relent on their faith in God, and actually walk in those shoes without giving up, or giving in to lesser ways of life. To be successful, you need to truly know who you are, what you are made of, and hold on to that identity and not let anyone take it away. That is what narcissists and evil intended people want most, to break your into little pieces and make you vulnerable to their attacks, blur your mind away from common sense and their abuse, and pull you very far away from your sense of self, and from God.

I help believers prepare for the trip out of here, to understand the conditions of this world, the deceit of evil and evil intended people, and walk away from them, and do all that you can to limit those things inside of you as well.
“As my sufferings mounted I soon realized that there were two ways in which I could respond to my situation — either to react with bitterness or seek to transform the suffering into a creative force. I decided to follow the latter course..." – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
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NOTE ABOUT MY FIRST THREE BOOKS: I wrote them as a first part to my journey, and God does not play a prominent role in them. It was a way of leading myself and others through a normal life and routine, towards healing and living a life of purpose. To understand ourselves, our emotions and suffering, while trying to manage becoming whole and helpful to others, understanding the things we need most to overcome, and the people we need to stay away from, while protecting who we become, the life we are aching to live...
19. "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also..." – Matthew 6:19-21 NIV
"You have to love and respect yourself enough to not let people use and abuse you. You have to set boundaries and keep them, let people clearly know how you won’t tolerate to be treated, and let them know how you expect to be treated..." – Jeanette Coron
And keep in mind that your most valuable assets, are also your most important "weapons" of defense against evil and abusers, against narcissists, and anyone who would want to diminish you. Good people fight with the light of their soul. Not to say you never have to defend yourself physically, but in the majority of situations, it is with love, and your most valuable assets, that you hold your ground against those who fight for evil. And that is why evil, and narcissists, attack those assets in people, it is their main goal, to make this world as dark as they can.
"You also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him...” – Luke 12:40 NIV