"To truly be there for someone, is to be able to hold their hand, or hug them, in a way that makes them feel that that is the safest place in the whole world for them to be, at that moment in time. And you need to be there for yourself in the same way, first... "
"Never, ever, go back to a person that made you suffer greatly for walking away from them the first time, because if you go back, they will learn everything they can about you to make you suffer even more, they will do their best to keep you traumatized, dazed and confused, with little ability to walk away from them again..."
"To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering..." – Friedrich Nietzsche
"Healing and spiritual growth is like creating and sustaining a lifelong love letter with yourself, a story that can go down in history with everlasting impact..."
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Here are some of the main things that are important for a better life, love, healing, and that I can help people with:
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"Healing is the end of conflict of yourself..." – Stephanie Gailing
"Well said, teacher,” the man replied. “You are right in saying that God is one and there is no other but him. To love him with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices..." – Mark 12:32-33 NIV
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Be careful who you share good news with:
You want to share good news with people who will be sincerely happy for you, support you to do even better, encouraging, not people who will be jealous and dismissive, who reply right away with some good news of their own. Do this right, and you will find yourself surrounded by loving, and understanding, friends... |
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Be careful who you share bad news with:
You want to share bad news with people who are supportive, who are able to have empathy, kindness, able to reciprocate with similar feelings, not people who make excuses, belittle, or tell you something worse that happened to them. Do this wrong, and you will end up feeling a lot worse, rejected, alienated, as if your problems just got bigger... |
"Choose your friends with caution; plan your future with purpose, and frame your life with faith..." – Thomas S. Monson
"But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love..." – 1 Corinthians 13:13, NASB
We are not whole in this world of ours,
we are fractured in many parts interacting with one another, and evil intended people are masters at breaking off parts of people's psyche, off into the dark voids of hell and our subconscious. There, our parts suffer unimaginable sufferings, until we can figure out what is wrong, about their pain and trauma, and heal those parts into our present moment. That is the best "labor of love" anyone can do for themselves. And a show of respect for God, is to heal all of your being into one whole part, and it is the only way you can be "someone" in that next world, close to God. Otherwise you are just a mixed up person merged with all of those around you, part of you in them, part of them in you, resulting in an endless tug of war that will only end when this world ends, you along with it.
Inner child work, Internal Family System, rescuing your lost parts and helping them get along with one another, that is what this work is all about. With your lost parts held hostage in dark places, in illusions of suffering, they not only fight against one another, they often don't even recognize themselves, they often act as enemies, even to you. That is the battle that goes on in everyone. Those inner battles cause ADHD, depression, murderous tendencies, narcissism, all sorts of physical and mental health issues. Emotional maturity can only be achieved by people who find a way to become the best leader to all of their internal parts, get them healed, overcome their fears, and have them work together towards one healthy and defined goal. That becomes your purpose, you become meaningful to yourself when you accomplish this at a high enough level.
Narcissists are spiritual abusers, which I think is the worst kind of abuse as it causes everything else within you to fail. One of the highest aims in life, backed up by many studies, is not only holding a belief in a higher power, but aiming for it with all of your mind and heart. And that is what narcissists focus on destroying, your higher beliefs, to keep you grounded and within their grasp. Narcissists don't believe in anything other than themselves, that is what makes them relentless abusers, and some of the worst enemies to God. Even those narcissists that fake higher beliefs for their own selfish motives, eventually the ruse cannot last.
we are fractured in many parts interacting with one another, and evil intended people are masters at breaking off parts of people's psyche, off into the dark voids of hell and our subconscious. There, our parts suffer unimaginable sufferings, until we can figure out what is wrong, about their pain and trauma, and heal those parts into our present moment. That is the best "labor of love" anyone can do for themselves. And a show of respect for God, is to heal all of your being into one whole part, and it is the only way you can be "someone" in that next world, close to God. Otherwise you are just a mixed up person merged with all of those around you, part of you in them, part of them in you, resulting in an endless tug of war that will only end when this world ends, you along with it.
Inner child work, Internal Family System, rescuing your lost parts and helping them get along with one another, that is what this work is all about. With your lost parts held hostage in dark places, in illusions of suffering, they not only fight against one another, they often don't even recognize themselves, they often act as enemies, even to you. That is the battle that goes on in everyone. Those inner battles cause ADHD, depression, murderous tendencies, narcissism, all sorts of physical and mental health issues. Emotional maturity can only be achieved by people who find a way to become the best leader to all of their internal parts, get them healed, overcome their fears, and have them work together towards one healthy and defined goal. That becomes your purpose, you become meaningful to yourself when you accomplish this at a high enough level.
Narcissists are spiritual abusers, which I think is the worst kind of abuse as it causes everything else within you to fail. One of the highest aims in life, backed up by many studies, is not only holding a belief in a higher power, but aiming for it with all of your mind and heart. And that is what narcissists focus on destroying, your higher beliefs, to keep you grounded and within their grasp. Narcissists don't believe in anything other than themselves, that is what makes them relentless abusers, and some of the worst enemies to God. Even those narcissists that fake higher beliefs for their own selfish motives, eventually the ruse cannot last.
“Healing is embracing what is most feared; healing is opening what has been closed, softening what has hardened into obstruction, healing is learning to trust life.” – Jeanne Achterberg
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"All healing is first a healing of the heart..." – Carl Townsend